Christmas Holiday card etiquette

In blended families and households that do not observe Christmas make sure you have cards that say, “Happy Holidays” and other general wishes, and consider using “and family” to include everyone in the home, even if they have different last names.

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The holiday season is upon us and many are dreaming of a 'write' Christmas. In fact, the tradition of sending holiday cards is one most won't do without.

"Holiday greetings provide a way for people to connect with friends and family," says Denise Darragh of Hallmark Canada. "Although they're busy, consumers tell us they look forward to the chance to share news about families and hear from loved ones."

A Christmas card also reflects your family's personality and style. Once you've purchased your holiday cards and you're gathered around the table with pens and postage in hand, follow these tips from the experts at Hallmark on addressing and signing your cards.

For family and friends

Make your cards more personal with a little note and be sure to sign the card, even if your name is pre-printed.

Keep it informal-drop your last name with close friends and relatives. Traditionally, family signatures begin with the father's name, then the mother's and finally the children. Or simply use "John, Mary and family."

For couples with two different last names, address the card to "John Jones and Mary Smith." . When addressing cards to family and friends, include their children's names.

For a married woman who uses her maiden name only at work, address the cards to "Mr. and Mrs. John Smith." If she uses her maiden name for all occasions (work and social) address the card to "Mr. John Smith and Ms. Susan Jones."

Special situations

When sending a card to someone who doesn't celebrate Christmas, choose a card consistent with their beliefs or send one with a generic design and sentiment, such as "Happy Holidays" or "Season's Greetings." . Take special care following a death in a family. Select a card with messages of sympathy. If the card is to a widow, address her as "Mrs. John Jones."

For additional holiday tips visit www.hallmark.com or call 1-800-268-3230.

- News Canada

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